So you’re not the norm, well according to society and the majority. Throughout your younger years you struggled with your identity because you had to wear a Façade. You worked hard on being something you’re not fearing that you’d be rejected by your family because you identify with the LGBTQ community. Deep down you worry about how they’re going to feel, say, or if they’re going to be embarrassed by you. So you date the opposite sex and it made you unhappy. You dress according to society’s rules. You play the role of what society labels a female or male ought to be. As years go by you become depressed, unhappy, and resentful of not being yourself and of how people may view you and talk about you.

But now you decided you had enough and yearn to be happy and to express who you really are. Now you deal with a couple of things:

1. Rejection
2. Accusations
3. Judgment
4. Stereotypical thinking
5. Hatred

You then become used to being judged though it hurts, so you either become withdrawn or you go to the extreme of making plenty of friends. You party more, you hang out more, substance abuse may even be in the mix. However, when you are home alone by yourself you cry your eyes out. Why don’t you feel better about yourself now that you have come out and owning who you are? Why do you move from one relationship to the next with the same issues? Why does everything seem more dramatic? You hate people wondering who you are and what you do.

Somehow you feel cheated for the years you spent stifling your feelings and how and who you wanted to love. That feeling just does not leave , it follows you into relationships you try to build. Often times you become angry and wonder why people judge you because of how you look, dress, and who you date and/or marry. What is the missing link? Why do you feel so incomplete? How do you cope with the trauma of being truly you as to not jeopardize your relationships? How do you mend the relationships that are broken?

Have you really found yourself? Do you really know who you are and why you are different from the norm? In the back of your mind you worry about what people think. What do you think about you? Do you need help figuring out who you are and your sexuality? I am here to help when you’re ready.

 

 

 

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